In this episode of THE Amicable Divorce Expert podcast, you will learn the following about Parental Alienation:
1. What You Can Do If You Are the Victim of Parental Alienation
• Before the divorce
•• Document happy experiences with your children
••• Video & audio recordings, artwork
••• School Records
•• Find an attorney and/or mediator knowledgeable in Parental Alienation
•••Test them, question them, make sure they know what you want
••• Don’t want vengeance. Always make it about the best interests of the children, not about what happened to you.
2. During the Divorce
• Court Time
•• Always be on your best behavior. Stay calm and rational, even when it hurts
•• Never bad mouth your ex to ANYONE
•• See a therapist alone
•• Know your rights; consult with experts
•• Be honest even if your ex isn’t
•• Insert in the custody order that the children do not have the right to unilaterally change visiting times.
•• Ask for consequences if one parent attempts to align the children against the other parent.
3. After the Divorce
• What you should do when the children begin to behave badly towards you
•• Stay calm and rational – even if it hurts
•• Don’t bad mouth your ex
•• Document everything
•• Get clear video evidence and make sure the sound and picture are clear
• If you become a target or if they start to ignore the custody times
•• Document everything
•• Call the police but don’t expect them to do anything and have your court order in your hand when you call them.
•• Get a copy of the police report or the report number
• Get a Temporary Restraining Order
•• Contempt charges are rare and difficult
•• Bring all your evidence to court and have it readily accessible for the judge who should want to view it and read it.
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Biography
RON BERGLAS Biography
Ron Berglas is a mediator with Magnum Mediation. Ron is also the Chair of the Parental Alienation Legislative Group. Together with his colleague Dr. Lynn Steinberg and a group of like-minded alienated parents, they have focused their despair at losing their children to the malign intentions of their former partners into a driving force to enact legislation that would require all mental health practitioners who work with children to be educated in parental alienation. They also continue to combat through legislative action the plethora of misinformation campaigns that have appeared recently that deny the existence of parental alienation.
The Parental Alienation Legislative Group together with PASI, Parental Alienation Syndrome
Intervention, is run by Joan Kloth-Zanard in New York, New York to oversee our 501C3.
Magnum Mediation
909-283-3991
info@magnumediation.com
LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/ron-berglas-04
Parental Alienation website: www.palgandpasi.org
1. What You Can Do If You Are the Victim of Parental Alienation
• Before the divorce
•• Document happy experiences with your children
••• Video & audio recordings, artwork
••• School Records
•• Find an attorney and/or mediator knowledgeable in Parental Alienation
•••Test them, question them, make sure they know what you want
••• Don’t want vengeance. Always make it about the best interests of the children, not about what happened to you.
2. During the Divorce
• Court Time
•• Always be on your best behavior. Stay calm and rational, even when it hurts
•• Never bad mouth your ex to ANYONE
•• See a therapist alone
•• Know your rights; consult with experts
•• Be honest even if your ex isn’t
•• Insert in the custody order that the children do not have the right to unilaterally change visiting times.
•• Ask for consequences if one parent attempts to align the children against the other parent.
3. After the Divorce
• What you should do when the children begin to behave badly towards you
•• Stay calm and rational – even if it hurts
•• Don’t bad mouth your ex
•• Document everything
•• Get clear video evidence and make sure the sound and picture are clear
• If you become a target or if they start to ignore the custody times
•• Document everything
•• Call the police but don’t expect them to do anything and have your court order in your hand when you call them.
•• Get a copy of the police report or the report number
• Get a Temporary Restraining Order
•• Contempt charges are rare and difficult
•• Bring all your evidence to court and have it readily accessible for the judge who should want to view it and read it.
#podcast #parentalalienation #court #evidence #legalrights #co-parenting #custody #childsupport #witnesses #mediator #attorney #parentchildrelationship #divorce #emotions #police #Judge #temporaryrestariningorder #activist #bestbehavior #communication #conflictcommunication #courtpreparation #beforedivorce #duringdivorce #afterdivorce @RonBerglas @TheAmicableDivorceExpert
Biography
RON BERGLAS Biography
Ron Berglas is a mediator with Magnum Mediation. Ron is also the Chair of the Parental Alienation Legislative Group. Together with his colleague Dr. Lynn Steinberg and a group of like-minded alienated parents, they have focused their despair at losing their children to the malign intentions of their former partners into a driving force to enact legislation that would require all mental health practitioners who work with children to be educated in parental alienation. They also continue to combat through legislative action the plethora of misinformation campaigns that have appeared recently that deny the existence of parental alienation.
The Parental Alienation Legislative Group together with PASI, Parental Alienation Syndrome
Intervention, is run by Joan Kloth-Zanard in New York, New York to oversee our 501C3.
Magnum Mediation
909-283-3991
info@magnumediation.com
LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/ron-berglas-04
Parental Alienation website: www.palgandpasi.org
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