Archive of month: 2023

Listen Here: https://judyweigle.podbean.com/e/compartmentalize-time-for-life-balance-during-divorce/ Recipe for a Heart-Healthy Divorce lists the compartmentalization of time as a key ingredient in an amicable divorce. When people file for divorce their emotions are out of control, their communication is compromised, and their time is unbalanced – unless time is approached in a very different and self-serving way. Controlling the […]

Listen Here:  https://judyweigle.podbean.com/e/communication-is-your-key-to-control-wjudith-weigle/ People don’t realize how much power and control they have over adverse situations simply by communicating in a way that neutralizes conflict. We aren’t taught communication skills in school. We learn from our parents. We learn from our friends. And we learn from every person with whom we interact. But if the […]

Listen Here:  https://judyweigle.podbean.com/e/recipe-for-a-heart-healthy-divorce-wjudith-weigle/ No, a Heart-Healthy Divorce is not an oxymoron. It is possible to use divorce to reset our way of thinking; to sharpen our apology and forgiveness skills; and to learn how to deal with conflict in a completely different way than “lawyering up for the fight”. But a formal approach has never […]

Listen Here: https://judyweigle.podbean.com/e/are-you-held-hostage-in-your-marriage-and-divorce-with-kelly-thiel-author-former-cult-member/ You know when your relationship doesn’t feel right, look right, or function with the freedom of individual thinking and independent behavior for both spouses. You know that having no access to money isn’t normal for an adult in a marriage. You know that giving up self-expression means having no personal identity. You […]

Listen Here:  https://judyweigle.podbean.com/e/is-trust-a-concern-in-your-divorce/ I speak a lot about the Emotional Divorce, which precedes the Legal Divorce. The Emotional Divorce has to be settled before we file and make legally binding decisions. The Emotional Divorce is the emotional uncoupling process of grieving the loss of the relationship. If people don’t go through this grieving process first, […]

Listen Here:  https://judyweigle.podbean.com/e/solutions-can-be-simple-if-you-re-honest/ It’s hard to be honest, especially if we’re in a situation, like divorce, where we think that honesty may disadvantage us. If this is where you’re at right now, please know that other than divulging where you live if you’re experiencing potential physical harm to yourself or your children, honesty is the […]

Listen Here:  https://judyweigle.podbean.com/e/tips-to-identify-and-handle-financial-abuse-in-your-marriage-wattorney-lisa-zeiderman/ You may not have been able to define it until  you listened to episode 225 on Financial Abuse, but you know when you’re not living as a person who is free to use family money, spend family money, and discuss family money with your spouse. Marriage only works if both people have […]

Listen Here:  https://judyweigle.podbean.com/e/unlocking-your-emotional-money-block-to-thrive-wlinda-lingo-cpa-financial-coach/ https://judyweigle.podbean.com/e/unlocking-your-emotional-money-block-to-thrive-wlinda-lingo-cpa-financial-coach/ After interviewing Linda Lingo about divorce, money, long-term marriages, and long-term care, I started thinking of all my clients and their financial footprints. I get to see their financial footprints through their Disclosure forms. My view of women and money is that they’re really good with money. Honestly, as I keep listening to […]

Listen Here:  https://judyweigle.podbean.com/e/the-5-biggest-risk-factors-for-conflict-in-blended-families-wjudy-graybill-step-parent-coach-author/ I had the pleasure of interviewing Judy Graybill, Stepparent Coach and author on this week’s podcast episode 223. She just wrote an e-book titled The 5 Biggest Risk Factors for Blended Families. After our interview I kept thinking about some of the points she made, and here’s where I landed. Having a […]

Listen Here:  https://judyweigle.podbean.com/e/stressed-unfocused-at-work-due-to-divorce-vicky-has-solutions-wvicky-townsend-divorce-right-inc/ The first thing to know if you are about to file for divorce, or are going through the filing now, is that Distraction happens to everyone. You are not alone. If you have not filed for divorce yet, yet are stressed about the multitude of decisions you have to make and the […]