Divorce Shield: Coach for Men with John Nachlinger, Esq. Mediator, Divorce Coach and Podcast. Men have different fears than women in divorce, specifically the loss of their children and the continuing cost of spousal support or alimony, to the extent that their lives may be ruined. John Nachlinger addresses all of their fears and speaks the language of men so that men confidently proceed with divorce with calm confidence and continued responsibility.